How to design virtual networking events that attendees come back for

From speed networking to cohorts, each virtual networking format has a purpose. Learn which one fits your audience, goal, and event size.

Virtual events have come a long way technically. Platforms are more stable, and the experience is much cleaner, with many focusing on cleaner user flows and accessible tech. In fact, networking features are now one of the first things attendees look for when deciding whether to sign up.

A survey by Kaltura found that 91% want in-session chat, 85% want a profile other attendees can find and connect with, and 81% want to 1:1 chat with other attendees. But actually connecting with someone virtually still feels harder than it should. The intent rarely translates into a successful virtual networking event, and more often than not, it comes down to format — how networking is structured.

We'll now break down the best virtual event networking formats, when to use them, and what gets in the way.

Virtual networking event formats

A beginner's guide for better virtual networking events

Why virtual event networking keeps feeling flat

Even when virtual events run smoothly, the networking rarely does. Attendees drop into breakout rooms with strangers, make polite small talk for five minutes, and leave without exchanging anything meaningful. Screen fatigue gets the blame, and it is a real factor. Back-to-back video calls flatten social energy in a way that in-person environments do not.

A study published in BJPsych International also says 90.6% of experienced participants said in-person events were still better for building friendships, and 77.6% said face-to-face was simply more fun. This is more a format and event design problem than simply an event tech problem.

By choosing the right format, you build workarounds and smooth out the overall experience—giving attendees a networking experience that's as fun and helpful as an in-person one.

5 popular virtual networking formats and what they're best for

Every virtual networking event has a goal behind it—pipeline generation, community building, or simply getting the right people in the same room. The format you run determines whether you hit that goal or just hit your attendance number.

But first, a quick overview of the different formats, along with what event tech you'd need to get it done:

FormatWhen to useTech required
Speed networkingLarge events where you want many quick 1:1 introductions among similar attendeesBreakout rooms with timed rotation or push notifications to send out alerts
Structured roundtablesWhen you want focused, topic-driven discussions in small groupsBreakout rooms, facilitator controls, polls/whiteboards, chat
Open networking loungesInformal, self-directed networking environments (like hallway conversations)Spatial platforms (e.g., Gather) or multiple open breakout rooms with hosts
Async networkingWhen attendees are in different time zones, or engagement spans before/after the eventIn-app messaging, AI matchmaking, discussion threads, and meeting scheduling tools
Cohort-based networkingMulti-session programs focused on long-term relationships and learningMulti-track sessions and async chat channels

Speed networking

Speed networking runs attendees through a series of short one-on-one video calls before moving them to the next person. Sessions typically run two to five minutes each. It is the highest-volume format available. A single one-hour session can generate 15–12 unique conversations per attendee.

That makes it well-suited to events where the primary KPI is new connections made or conversations started. This also makes it the best format when attendees share enough common ground to make a cold introduction worthwhile, such as the same industry or job function. Without that context, the conversations stay surface-level and awkward.

Where it breaks down is in depth. Speed networking is an opening, not a relationship. You need to follow up; otherwise, the connections do not go anywhere.

How to run it: While some virtual event software give you automated rotations, most don't. In such cases, here's how you can run a speed networking event with breakout rooms. Keep one group of attendees fixed in their rooms and rotate the other group on a timer. It takes more manual coordination, but it gets the job done.

Some event software, like Zoho Backstage, also includes a push notification feature, which can be a great way to notify attendees that their time's up and they need to move to the next room.

Structured roundtables

Roundtables bring six to ten attendees together in a moderated group discussion around a specific topic or question. The topic serves as a cold introduction, as attendees already have something in common before anyone speaks.

It is the format best suited to deep attendee engagement. Where speed networking optimizes for volume, roundtables optimize for quality of conversation. The event success metrics to look for are engagement rate and session satisfaction scores. These are the signals that tell you whether people found the experience worth their time.

Pro tip: You can also run a virtual fishbowl session. Here, a small group discusses on camera while the rest of the room watches off-camera, then people rotate in. It is a good way to bring expert perspectives into the conversation without losing the small-group feel.

Where it breaks down is in moderation. A roundtable without a confident facilitator drifts. One or two people dominate, quieter attendees disengage, and the conversation loses the thread. And online, this happens faster than in person.

How to run it: This is as simple as setting up breakout rooms in your virtual event platform and assigning attendees to each one. To keep the conversation moving, pair it with engagement features — live polls to open the discussion, real-time whiteboards attendees can contribute to, and a chat function for attendees who are less comfortable speaking on camera.

Open networking lounges

Open networking lounges give attendees a shared virtual space with no fixed agenda. They choose who to talk to, which conversation to join, and how long to stay. It is the closest virtual equivalent to a conference hallway or a post-session drinks reception. It is also one of the better formats for sponsor visibility, since lounges can be structured around branded rooms or tables without it feeling forced.

Where it breaks down is passivity. Without a nudge, a significant portion of attendees will observe rather than participate. So while many people might drop in out of curiosity, many might not participate in the discussion.

How to run it: Platforms like Gather.town are built for this format as they use spatial audio and avatar-based movement to mimic the feel of a physical room. If you are running on a standard virtual event platform, replicate it with a set of open breakout rooms organized by topic or interest area.

Label the rooms clearly, seed each one with a discussion prompt, and assign a host to each room to keep things from going quiet.

Async networking

Async networking removes the shared time requirement entirely. Attendees connect through platform-matched introductions, community threads, audio messages, or video profiles they can engage with on their own schedule. The conversation starts asynchronously and moves to a live call when both parties are ready.

It is the only format that works across significant time zone differences without asking anyone to show up at an inconvenient hour, and works best in membership communities and professional associations where attendees have an ongoing reason to be in the same space.

On the other end, without a live event creating urgency, participation drops off. Attendees opt in with good intentions, but then deprioritize it when the week gets busy. A warm, specific prompt and a clear deadline for responding make a measurable difference to follow-through rates.

How to run it: Pick an event platform that offers multiple ways to connect—in-app chat, discussion channels, and the ability to book one-on-one meetings directly. Async networking also does not have to be part of the event itself. It works well as a pre-event activity, giving attendees a way to find and reach out to each other before the first session begins.

Cohort-based networking

Cohort-based networking keeps the same small group of attendees together across multiple sessions over days, weeks, or months. Rather than meeting someone once and hoping the connection sticks, attendees build familiarity through repeated interaction around shared goals or challenges.

It is sometimes called Birds of a Feather, a format where people are grouped by a specific interest, role, or problem they are working through together.

It helps with both relationship depth and long-term community retention. For events where the goal is a genuine professional community, this is the most effective format available. It works best in accelerator programs, fellowship cohorts, leadership development events, and any context where attendees are investing in a longer arc of learning or growth together.

How to run it: If your event platform supports multi-track sessions, you can run all your cohort rooms simultaneously, each with its own host, agenda, and chat channel without any of the groups bleeding into each other. Between sessions, keep a dedicated discussion channel open so the conversation carries forward, and the next meeting feels like a continuation rather than starting over.

How to pick the right software for your virtual networking event

The platform you choose shapes how attendees behave inside it. This is sometimes called social architecture, the idea that the structure of a space, physical or virtual, influences the interactions that happen within it.

So choose a platform that is built for the kind of interaction you want, not just one that can technically accommodate it. Some virtual networking features to look for are:

  • Attendee profiles: Searchable profiles that let attendees find and connect with specific people before the event even begins, not just during it.
  • AI matchmaking: Pairs attendees based on shared goals, roles, or interests so connections feel relevant rather than random.
  • In-app messaging: Direct messaging and group discussion channels that keep conversations inside the platform instead of falling off into email threads.
  • Meeting booking: Lets attendees schedule one-on-ones without leaving the platform or reaching for a separate scheduling tool.
  • Multi-track sessions: Runs parallel networking rooms simultaneously, each with its own host, agenda, and chat channel.
  • Engagement tools: Polls, Q&A, and reactions that give attendees something to respond to during facilitated sessions instead of sitting passively on camera.
  • Networking analytics: Tracks connection rates, meeting bookings, and session participation so you can measure whether networking actually happened.

⚠️The participation problem nobody talks about

Even the best platform cannot fix a room full of muted, camera-off attendees waiting it out. Technology creates the conditions for connection, but it does not create the connection itself. You need a "human bridge" to lower the social friction, call out the "lurkers" in a friendly way, and facilitate actual dialogue.

Tech is a powerful multiplier, but it's only one-third of the equation. Without a deliberate strategy to break the ice, you're just hosting a very expensive virtual call.

Better conversations start with better software

Virtual networking works when it is designed to work. The format has to match the goal, the platform has to support the interaction, and the experience has to give attendees a reason to show up fully rather than lurk in the background with their camera off.

Here's where Zoho Backstage comes in. It brings attendee profiles, AI matchmaking, in-app messaging, meeting booking, and multi-track session support into one place. The infrastructure for meaningful connection is there from the moment attendees register, not something you are scrambling to patch together on the day.

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FAQ

It depends on your format, but in most cases, all-in-one virtual event software can deliver the best ROI. Zoho Backstage, for example, is built to handle the full range of virtual event and networking management with structured sessions, breakout lounges, in-app chat, and attendee matchmaking in one place.

This lets organizers design networking intentionally rather than leaving attendees to find each other on their own.

Speed networking pairs attendees in a series of short one-on-one video calls, usually two to five minutes each, before rotating them to the next person. It works well for large groups where the goal is introductions rather than deep conversation. Most virtual event platforms support it through automated breakout room rotation.

In-person networking is self-directed. People move around, read the room, and choose who to approach. Virtual networking needs more structure to replicate that. Without a clear format, attendees default to passive participation. The upside is that virtual removes geographic and financial barriers, which broadens who can show up.

The best metrics for your virtual networking event's ROI are connection requests made during the event, follow-up messages exchanged afterwards, session participation rates, and post-event survey responses. If attendees can name someone they met and plan to follow up with, the event worked.

The biggest mistake is choosing a virtual event platform that does not support the format you are running. Others include skipping pre-event context that helps attendees know who else is in the room, and leaving sessions unstructured with no facilitator to hold the conversation.